In Motherhood Vs. Art, There Is No Wrong Choice

“While none of my professors warned against marriage, I’d been advised, directly, and by more than one of them, not to have children. At the time, in fact, I’d sensed that this was meant to be a compliment—that they’d taken my writing seriously enough to suggest I not sacrifice it for a family. And the attitude persists.”

When Punk Musicians Grow Up

“People were aware of my past and it probably put a lot of the more straight people off. … I still muck about with music, but I wished I’d paid more heed to that particular itch about five or 10 years ago. My work is so intense that it’s hard to fit music in now.”